A Photo Opportunity by Laurie Provost

As directed by Jack Maguire's activity at the end of chapter 8, "A Photo Opportunity" from his book poignantly titled, The Power of Personal Storytelling… I found a photo of myself and one or more family members, that's at least fiver years old, preferably older, and jumped right into the activity.

 
The photo I chose happens to be forty years old and as soon as I pulled it out of an old family photo album, memories of my childhood came flooding back, along with a bunch of possibly story ideas. In doing the research on this photo, I uncovered, and was frightfully reminded, just how drastically different my brother and sisters' memories of our childhood are.
 
Step one of the activity says to place the photograph in front of you so that you can comfortably study it. My roughly scribbled notes from doing the activity reveal the photo was from 1975 and I know this immediately because it says '75 on the back of the photo. It's a summer family vacation, and we are on the way to Montana and Nebraska. My notes go on to read, "Me, age 11, the year I turned into a boy, half of us are angry, or distracted, 2 kids with fake/forced smiles, and my little sister, Tricia, looks like Nicholas from the 80's television show Eight is Enough, she looks dazed and confused."
 
Step three says to ask yourself a bunch of questions, like, if I didn't know the occasion for the photograph, what would I assume it to be? My answer: I'd assume the occasion to be the same as it actually was – a forced-photo on a family vacation across the country where seven of us were crammed in an old station-wagon for hours and hours. Another question asks, If I didn't know the individuals in the photograph, including myself, what kind of people would I take them to be? My snarky answer: I'd take them to be a miserably unhappy family with some serious problems.
 
Maguire named his book The Power of Personal Storytelling for a reason. I'm finding the entire process of personal storytelling to be powerful. Doing this relatively simple activity, and thinking about story ideas from a photo is powerful. Telling the stories is powerful. Out of all the possible stories generated from this photo, I think I'm leaning towards something a little less serious, like a story about the year I turned into a boy… but you'll just have to wait and see.

6 responses to “A Photo Opportunity by Laurie Provost”

  1. Joan misek Avatar
    Joan misek

    I have often said, my generation has to pass before younger generations can become who they really are. Is the journey difficult? Yes it is. Your jobs to help those who come after to believe in a better tomorrow. You can do it.

  2. Nancy Wolter Avatar
    Nancy Wolter

    Laurie, this is so thoughtful, and funny in a poignant way. When I look at this photo, I don’t see unhappiness, but kids looking restless, goofy, tired. The mom trying her best to keep everyone connected. So me, being a stranger to your family unit, makes completely different assumptions based on of course, my own experiences. So this is why YOUR stories are so important, to mine your personal experiences and share how you saw the world, with eyes that look out at the world as a ten year old, a four year old, a 20 year old, and so on. Thanks so much for your authenticity and openness, and your story here!

  3. Laurie Provost Avatar
    Laurie Provost

    Thanks for the insight Nancy! Good to remember it’s only my memories and the meaning I gave it when I look at the image, and others see something totally different, based on their memories and experiences.

  4. Trish Phillips Avatar
    Trish Phillips

    I always like putting a face to a story. I like to compare what I imagined in my head to reality and see how far off I am. This blog has me wondering, “Do I have a story from an old photo?” I do! I have asked myself through out this semester if I have similar stories or stories sparked by a subject someone else has shared. I look forward to hear about the year you became a boy.

  5. Leticia Avatar
    Leticia

    Interesting how the backstory affects our current view. Like Nancy, the photo told me a different story because of the great adventures on my own family car trips, complete with photo ops beside the road. My understanding of the photo’s story changed when I read your words. Inspired by the insight I looked at some of my old family photos and pondered. An interesting experience. A picture is worth a thousand words – but are they different words depending on the viewers own story?

  6. John Genette Avatar
    John Genette

    What I like most about this post is how you willfully submitted to the process Maguire suggested. It prompted you to reflect on your past, on the ways siblings see things differently (I’ve had a similar experience while gathering story kernels from my sibs), and, most beneficial, on who you are today. When I was working on my solo show, my coach pointed out in an early rehearsal that the present day was missing. “Good stories about your past, but where are you now? Warts and all, who are you today?” You tapped into that in a touching and insightful way. A simple assignment becomes profound!

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