Snowflakes by Kelly Davis

“No two snowflakes are exactly alike.”   We have all heard that saying.  Well, it’s true.  The shape of a snowflake is determined by the
temperature and humidity of the environment in which it is formed.  The composite shape of the snowflake is
created as it travels through varying ranges of temperature and humidity while
falling from the sky to the ground.

“No two people are exactly alike.”  We have all heard that saying as well.   The composite of our lives is shaped as we
live through the various experiences in our lives that make us who we are at
this very moment. 

I spent the portion of my life from childhood to early
adulthood growing up in the northern region of Iowa.  During that time I saw quite a few
snowflakes; usually in large amounts for long periods of time.  

As a child, I loved the snow.  There were many times when I would catch a
snowflake in my hand and marvel at the beauty and uniqueness of its shape.   I could hardly wait for winter to arrive so
I could play in the snow.  Wind chill temperatures
and snow drifts created a magical winter wonderland for me to play in and
enjoy.

When I grew into adulthood all that changed; I no longer
marveled at the beauty of an individual snowflake.  I dreaded winter’s coming.   Wind chill temperatures and snow drifts were
now major hindrances that kept me from doing the things I wanted to do. 

This is not my first time taking Creating and Telling
Personal Stories.  The first time I took
the class I approached it the same way I approached the winters of my early adulthood.  I feared it. 
I dreaded having to create and
tell
my personal stories.  I viewed the experiences in my life as wind
chill temperatures and snow drifts that kept me from doing what I wanted to do
and being who I wanted to be.

This time around it will be different.  Over time, I have learned to look back on the
past experiences of my life and marvel at the things I’ve learned and the
person I’ve become.  Not all of the
experiences were happy; but thankfully not all of them were sad. 

It takes millions of uniquely formed snowflakes to make one
snow drift.  It has taken millions of
unique life experiences to create the person that I am today.  I am honored to have the opportunity to share
a few of those experiences with my classmates.

12 responses to “Snowflakes by Kelly Davis”

  1. Louise Avatar
    Louise

    i enjoyed this post so very much! Of course, I already know what a great teller you are, but this was such a perfect example of what I want to learn to do…to take my listeners with me into the environment of the tale to experience it together.
    I am so excited to be in class with you!

  2. Paulette Friday Avatar
    Paulette Friday

    Kelly, this is beautifully said. I used to think nothing much has happened in my life that was story-worthy until I participated in Liz’ Creating and Telling Personal Stories – twice. That class remains one of my favorites, and I wish I could take it again with you. Telling personal stories is very healing in many ways. Happy Storying!

  3. Victoria Kelly Avatar
    Victoria Kelly

    What a wonderful analogy. This was well written and so beautifully expressed. I cannot wait to hear more from you. I will enjoy sharing this class with you.

  4. phyllis ralley Avatar
    phyllis ralley

    Can’t wait to hear those stories Kelly. I am so glad to be in your audience.

  5. Tui Avatar
    Tui

    I am new to shaping my stories but not to telling stories. I am filled with stories, each one unique as a snowflake, but altogether they make up the snowdrift that is me. Thank you, Kelly, for your beautiful writing and wonderful analogy. Thank you for your storytelling courage. I look forward to sharing stories with you, and learning from you.

  6. Anne Avatar
    Anne

    Kelly,
    I thoroughly enjoyed your post! Snowflakes and uniqueness–you created a thoughtful and powerful analogy that is so true and relatable.
    Thank you!

  7. Sylvia Torrey Avatar

    Kelly,
    Your story immediately took me back to my childhood and the Ohio winters. Thank you for inspiring that reflection. And thank you for sharing your perception of the snowflakes as a child and how it changed as a young adult. Then to relate the uniqueness of the snowflake to the uniqueness of the individual provided a great analogy.

  8. Marianne Avatar
    Marianne

    Hi Kelly. I enjoyed reading your post about the uniqueness of snowflakes and people….and stories. It reminded me how people can witness the exact same event and yet will each have a unique story to tell about it. I loved your telephone story at the festival last week. I could certainly relate to the evolution of phones and my “love”, or is it addiction?) for the fancy smart phone I now have. If you ever decide to give up your day job, I think you have terrific potential for a career in stand-up comedy!

  9. Sandi B Avatar
    Sandi B

    I so enjoyed the way you related people to snow flakes. There are no two alike. I also related to the fear that we have when we are younger (or experienced for the first time) to when we get older and or more experience that we can look back and enjoy the moment. We can see what we have learned and how we have grown from the experience. Great blog. Thank you.

  10. James Ashcroft Avatar
    James Ashcroft

    Very well put. I love the sentiment of sharing glimpses into the influences that have shaped the unique and interesting person that you are. You are keeping them alive and perpetuating their influence as you share them with us.

  11. Sally Borg Avatar
    Sally Borg

    Kelly, your blog is as well thought out and beautiful as your stories!

  12. Ruth Shaw Avatar
    Ruth Shaw

    Kelly, some months have passed since you first posted this blog, but now that Thanksgiving is close by, I find your snowflakes remind me of the snowflakes I have seen in Colorado and Wyoming. I will seek out snowflakes this winter here in Arizona and begin to think of each new story as a snowflake, unique and original. Thanks and go build a snowman or two. Ruth

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